Matthew 10:31
"So do not be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows."
Readings for Sunday: Jeremiah, Romans, Matthew
Reflection:
What do you fear? For some people it’s heights. For others, it is public speaking. And then there are deeper fears: fear of rejection, fear of being unloved, fear of failure, and ultimately, fear of death. Everyone has fears; that is normal. And not all fear is bad; there is such a thing as healthy fear. For example, if a person sees a lake full of piranhas, a healthy fear will keep the person from jumping in. The question is not, whether we have fear, but whether we fear the right things.
In today’s Gospel, Jesus says something that sounds surprising: “Do not be afraid of those who kill the body… rather, be afraid of the one who can destroy both soul and body in Gehenna.” Jesus is teaching us about the most important fear of all: the fear of the Lord. This doesn’t mean being terrified that God is waiting in heaven to strike us, as though God is the “mighty smiter.” St. Thomas Aquinas distinguished between servile fear—the fear of a slave before a harsh master—and filial fear—the fear of a son who does not want to lose or damage a precious relationship with his father.
Consider a good marriage. A husband or wife avoids infidelity not simply because of consequences, but because they cherish the relationship and do not want to wound it. In that sense, a husband should “fear” offending and hurting the relationship with his wife.
In the same way, the fear of the Lord means valuing our relationship with God so much that we fear anything that would separate us from Him. Our culture often assumes that entrance to heaven is automatic. Yet Jesus speaks clearly about the possibility of rejecting God. Hell is a real possibility, not because God wants to condemn anyone, but because love must be freely chosen. God created us for Himself. To reject Him is ultimately to reject the very source of life and love. As Proverbs 9:10 states: “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom”
At the same time, the Gospel does not end with fear. Immediately after warning us, Jesus reminds us of God’s tender care: “Even the hairs of your head are counted.” The God whom we are called to reverence is also the God who loves us beyond measure. So let us fear losing our relationship with God, let us fear offending him and hurting him, but never fear coming to Him who forgives us if we but repent, because he loves us beyond measure.
Reflection Questions
- What fears most influence my daily decisions, and how do they compare to my desire to remain close to God?
- Do I approach my relationship with God as a living relationship that needs time, attention, and love, or do I sometimes take it for granted?
- Jesus reminds us that we are precious in the Father’s eyes. How can greater trust in God’s love help me overcome fear and grow in faith this week?








