Matthew 16:24
"...whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it."
Readings for Sunday: Jeremiah, Romans, Matthew
Reflection:
Have you ever noticed how close the “S” key is to the “W” key on a keyboard? A small mistake can turn “What Would Jesus Do?” into “What Should Jesus Do?” That mistake captures something important in this Sunday’s Gospel. Last week, Simon Peter correctly proclaimed Jesus as the Christ, the Son of the living God. This week, however, Peter tries to tell Jesus what he should do. When Jesus announces that he must suffer, die, and rise again, Peter objects: “God forbid, Lord! No such thing shall ever happen to you.”
Jesus’ response may seem harsh, at first: “”Get behind me, Satan! You are an obstacle to me. You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do.” Is Peter literally Satan? Of course not. Yet, just as Satan tempted Jesus to set up an earthly kingdom, rather than to suffer and die for our salvation, Peter is effectively trying to dissuade Jesus from his true mission. But unlike Satan, Peter is a disciple, and he needs to return to following Jesus, to stop trying to lead Jesus. Thus, Peter is to “get behind” Jesus, as in return to following Jesus, even to the cross.
That is the challenge for us. We can easily turn “What Would Jesus Do” into “What Should Jesus Do.” We sometimes think that Jesus should conform to our thinking, rather than to conform ours to his. We can presume that Jesus agrees with our opinions, our culture, or our desires. But discipleship means something different. Jesus says: “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.” St. Paul gives the same instruction: “Do not conform yourselves to this age, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind.” The Christian life is not about making Jesus conform to us. It is about allowing Jesus to transform us. So the question is simple: What would Jesus do? And are we willing to follow him?
Reflection Questions
- When have I been tempted to tell Jesus what I think He should do rather than humbly follow His will?
- What cross is Jesus asking me to take up and carry as I seek to follow Him more faithfully?
- In what area of my life do I need to stop asking “What should Jesus do?” and instead ask, “What would Jesus do?”








