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All Souls’ Day

Thus he made atonement for the dead that they might be freed from this sin.

Readings: 2 Maccabees, Romans, Matthew

Sometimes people ask, regarding Purgatory: “where is that in the bible?” The first reading that will be used at Sunday Mass at St. James – since there are different options for All Souls Day – is the biblical source, 2 Macc 12:43-46. (See also 1 Cor 3:15.) Keep in mind, unlike Catholic and Orthodox Bibles, Protestant Bibles do not have 1st or 2nd Maccabees. In this reading, we hear about how the leader of Israel in the second century BC, Judas, had a sacrifice offered at the temple in Jerusalem for the expiation of sin for a group of dead soldiers from the army of Israel. If we are honest, we recognize that while we follow Jesus, we are still impatient, at times dishonest, sometimes lustful and so on. In short, we are not perfect. We hope to be in heaven one day with the Lord Jesus and everyone else we love in our families, among our friends, and in our community. But, if Jesus brings imperfect people into heaven, then heaven will not be a place of perfect love, peace and joy.

We will still be gossiping, bickering and causing a raucous. The solution: for God to perfect those bound for heaven in the love of Jesus Christ.Those in purgatory are being perfectly molded to the image of Christ, to love as he loves. Yet, this process takes time; not because God lacks power, but because people have free will and are stubborn. People must freely choose to love, or else it is not love. God is patient because he gave us free will in the first place and will not override it, lest he effectively destroy the very creatures he is saving. The existence of Purgatory is part of the Good News of Jesus Christ: God is so merciful and patient, that those people who are not ready for heaven, and not bound for hell, when they die, are given his grace for transformation even after death, in order that they may live forever in perfect love.

Reflection

  • In what ways am I still not ready for heaven, in what areas of my life do I still lack holiness and virtue, in what ways to a fail to love as Christ loves?
  • Am I willing to embrace the transformative power of God’s grace here on earth, even if it is painful to let go of my vices and self-centeredness?
  • Do I pray for loved ones who may be in Purgatory? Have I encouraged family members and friends to pray for me when I die one day?

The Exaltation of the Holy Cross

John 3:16

For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son...

Readings for Sunday: Numbers, Philippians, John

Reflection:

How can you have victory through defeat? It’s crazy, right? The two things (victory and defeat) are contradictory. When it comes to Christ, however, it is (paradoxically) true. Perhaps we should say, rather, that Christ has victory in what seems like defeat.

This is good news for us. If you struggle or suffer, then today’s celebration of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross should give you hope. As St. Paul tells us in the second reading, Christ suffered death on the cross, but through it came to victory. He can do the same for us. What we need to do is understand how it works.

When humanity sinned, it rejected a loving relationship and friendship with God. (That is the point of the story of Adam and Eve). Since it is love that brings life, sin brings death. The result of original sin was not just death of the body, but also death of the soul. Hell is about living in such a way that you have no tangible sense of God’s presence: no relationship with God.

To save us, therefore, God not only had to forgive our sins, but also convince us to freely choose to love him again. So how was he going to do that? By becoming human and dying on the Cross. To convince us to love him, God showed us the greatest sign of love possible: giving his own life for us.

It was the bridegroom showing his beloved that he loves her to death, and would give anything for her. Or as it is written in today’s gospel “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him might not perish but might have eternal life” (John 3:16-17).

At the same time, Christ himself goes into death in order to defeat death. He is like the knight who enters the belly of the dragon and then kills the beast from the inside to then emerge with victory. With Jesus, love wins over sin precisely by giving its life in death. If sin is the opposite of love, then Christ wins by loving unto death.

If you understand that, then you can understand how Jesus can bring victory to our suffering and our struggles. Sometimes Jesus does work the physical miracles by curing an illness, or getting a person a better job. However, he often does not. The real miracle is how he changes our hearts. He cannot force our free will. When we encounter the cross in our lives, whether that is sickness or financial distress, if we embrace it in Jesus, then it can transform our hearts.

Do we love Jesus? Yes… at least a little. Do we love Jesus as he loves us? No. When we suffer, we get angry with God. When we pray for cures and do not get them, we start praying less or stop praying all together. We spend more time watching TV than we pray. The list goes on. We do not love Jesus to the point that we love him for his own sake. Rather, we tend to love him because he makes lives better. We do not love him to the point that we will suffer for him without asking him for something in return.

For this reason, if we embrace the cross in our lives, then Jesus can use it to transform our hearts to love him as he loves us. To the world, it seems as though Jesus is powerless to end our suffering. But God sees it as a chance to change our motives, to choose to love him for no other reason than for who he is. It is in this way that the suffering of the cross cleanses us of all our sinful tendencies and makes us ready for heaven. That is the victory. It is true that, in the end, we will be cured of all sickness. We will be cured of death through the Resurrection. In heaven no one suffers. But more importantly, that is because everyone is perfectly united to God in love. And the love of God gives life everlasting.

Reflection Questions

  • How does the paradox of “victory through defeat” challenge the way you normally view suffering, setbacks, or struggles in your own life?

  • In what ways can embracing the “crosses” in your life help deepen your love for God beyond simply asking Him for blessings?

  • What areas of your heart or life might God be inviting you to let Him transform through suffering?

23rd Sunday In Ordinary Time

Luke 14:25

Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.

Readings for Sunday: Wisdom, Philemon, Luke

Reflection:

Discipleship is more than simply following Jesus; it is walking in His footsteps and imitating Christ in every aspect of life. At baptism, we became sons and daughters of God, called to pattern our lives on His Son. A true disciple is not one who follows Jesus occasionally or merely to receive blessings, but one whose entire identity is rooted in being a child of God and a follower of Christ.

The Gospels show that large crowds often followed Jesus, many drawn by His reputation as a miracle worker. Yet Jesus made clear that not all who followed Him were true disciples. He began to set conditions: “If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.” In other words, discipleship requires total commitment, putting Christ above everything else.

A disciple is someone under discipline, embracing the challenges of faith each day. Like an Olympic athlete who sacrifices daily for a crown that perishes, disciples accept the cost of following Christ for a reward that endures forever.

Jesus teaches three conditions: to put Him above all relationships, to carry our cross, and to renounce possessions. These do not mean literal hatred or reckless poverty, but rather a reordering of life so that Christ always comes first.

Discipleship is demanding because it requires transformation. We must let go of sin, embrace suffering, and live with spiritual poverty, seeing all that we have as belonging to God. Yet the reward is beyond imagination—eternal life in heaven, where perfect love and peace reign. The price is heavy, but discipleship prepares us for that profound encounter with God’s infinite love, the ultimate goal of our journey.

Reflection Questions

  • In what areas of my life do I struggle to put Christ first, and how can I begin to reorder my priorities as a true disciple?
  • What “crosses” or challenges in my life might God be asking me to embrace as part of my transformation in discipleship?
  • How can I practice spiritual poverty—using my possessions as tools for God’s will—rather than allowing them to control my life?

22nd Sunday In Ordinary Time

Luke 14:13

"...invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay you."

Readings for Sunday: Sirach, Hebrews, Matthew

Reflection:

Saint Augustine once said that the three most essential things for the spiritual life are “humility, humility, humility.” To understand this, we must first distinguish between worldly humility and biblical humility.

Worldly humility is often thought of as downplaying one’s accomplishments or refusing honor. For example, if Walter Payton, one of the greatest football players, were to say he was “average,” people would call that humble. While this attitude captures a willingness not to draw attention to oneself, it is, nonetheless, inauthentic because it is contrary to the truth.

Biblical humility, by contrast, is rooted in the truth. Jesus himself is the perfect model of humility. Though he is God, he “emptied himself” and became human, obedient even to death on a cross (Philippians 2). His humility was not in denying who he is but in serving others through self-sacrificial love. Thus, true humility is not about belittling oneself, but about recognizing the radical truth: all that we are and all that we have come from God, and all of our gifts and talents are given for his glory and the good of others.

When we serve those most in need, we grow in humility. Service shifts our focus away from ourselves and onto others, helping us live in the truth that life is not about self-promotion but about God. A truly humble person does not seek praise or recognition, nor are they disturbed by criticism, because their life is anchored in Christ.

Ultimately, humility is both a disposition and a way of life. It frees us from pride, grounds us in the truth, and directs all glory to God. This is why, as Augustine taught, humility is the foundation of the spiritual life.

Reflection Questions

  • In what ways do I sometimes confuse worldly humility with true, biblical humility? How can I better embrace humility as living in the truth rather than denying my gifts?
  • What concrete step of self-sacrificial service can I take this week to grow in humility and shift my focus away from myself and toward those most in need?

The Feast of Saints Peter and Paul

Matthew 16:18

“You are Peter, and upon this rock I will build my Church.”

Readings for Sunday: Acts, 2 Timothy, Matthew

Reflection:

This Sunday, we celebrate the two great evangelizers of our faith—St. Peter, the apostle to the Jews, and St. Paul, the apostle to the gentiles. Though very different in background and personality, both were chosen by Christ and gave their lives to build His Church. The readings for today offer us a powerful reminder of who they were, what they endured, and what their lives mean for us.

In our first reading, from the Acts of the Apostles, Peter is imprisoned for preaching the Gospel. An angel of the Lord comes, light fills the cell, and Peter walks free. God isn’t done with him yet. It’s a reminder that when we follow Christ, no prison—physical or spiritual—can hold us back.

Next, in Paul’s second letter to Timothy, we read the apostle’s words: “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” What a testimony! Paul’s life wasn’t easy—he was beaten, shipwrecked, and imprisoned—but he never gave up. And through it all, he trusted that the Lord would see him through.

Finally, in today’s Gospel from Matthew, we hear that it is Peter, who answers, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.” Jesus responds with those unforgettable words: “You are Peter, and upon this rock I will build my Church.”

This isn’t just about Peter personally—it’s about the Church’s foundation. Jesus entrusts Peter with leadership, showing us how God works through human instruments to guide His people.

Peter and Paul weren’t perfect; both would admit that they were sinners. Paul originally persecuted members of the Church and Peter denied Jesus three times before the crucifixion. But grace transformed them—and through them, the world. Their lives encourage us to say “yes” to Jesus, no matter our past, and to trust that God can do great things through each of us.

Let us pray today for their courage, their faith, and their love for Christ. May we, like Peter and Paul, become living stones in the Church that the Father continues to build—in and through Christ, our Lord.

Reflection Questions

  • In Your Prayer Ask: How is God calling me to be a “rock” in my own community, like Peter was for the early Church?

  • Reflect on This: What are the “chains” in my life that might be holding me back from fully following Christ?

  • Consider in Quiet Reflection: Like Paul, can I say I am “fighting the good fight” and “keeping the faith”?

Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Luke 6:45

A good person out of the store of goodness in his heart produces good.

Readings for Sunday: Sirach, 1 Corinthians, Luke

Reflection:

If an anthropologist from the future, traveling back in time with an invisibility cloak could observe you every day, all day, for months: what type of report would he write? It is easy for us to declare what our ideals are, but talk is cheap. How do we actually live? In the Gospel for this Sunday, Jesus says, “A good tree does not bear rotten fruit, nor does a rotten tree bear good fruit. For every tree is known by its own fruit… A good person out of the store of goodness in his heart produces good, but an evil person out of a store of evil produces evil; for from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks.” We all like to think of ourselves as good people, yet, if we are honest, we not only sin but even have thought patterns that are not always good. We judge people, we lust, and we are often selfish and self-centered.

Holiness is not simply avoiding sin; though to be clear, we should not sin. Holiness, in the end, is about conformity to Jesus Christ. It is to become just like him: to be a son or daughter of God in and through the Son of God.

To think like him, be like him, take on his dispositions and, in the end, act like him. That is why the Catholic Church teaches both about what entertainment we “consume” and the inculcation of virtue, that is, good habits.

Regarding entertainment, as well as books and so on, the Church teaches us to choose carefully. We like to think that we have great mental filters, and that we can filter out bad material. But that is not true. After all, have you ever had a song stuck in your head? How did it get there? Virtue is the day in and day out doing of good things, to the point that they become habit. Habits can be good (virtues) or bad (vices). We want to be so like Jesus Christ that it becomes “natural;” we want to be holy.

Reflection Questions

  • In your prayer ask: What TV shows, internet content, books, etc. do I watch and read?  Is it good? Does it lead me to Jesus Christ or away from him?
  • Reflect on this: What are my vices? Am I cultivating virtue in my life; am I working on eliminating my vices?
  • Consider in quiet reflection: What type of report would an invisible anthropologist write about me after observing just how I live every day, let alone what I think?

Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

Luke 6:27

Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you.

Readings for Sunday: 1 Samuel, 1 Corinthians, Luke

Reflection:

Sometimes Jesus’ commands seem crazy; for example, in today’s Gospel, he tells us to “love our enemies, do good to those who hate you.” Yet, if we understand it, it makes perfect sense. In the first place, the actual word in the original Greek text is Ἀγαπᾶτε (agapate); it is the command form of the verb agapaó, “to love.” But this is different than the other Greek words for love such as phileō (brotherly love, the love of friends), stérgō (family feeling), éramai (physical love, romantic love, sexual love). Agapaó means to do good for the other person without expectation of repayment. It has nothing to do with how you feel, rather, it is about what you do. Jesus would ultimately say, “No one has greater love (agape) than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.

We, as sinners, were in a sense God’s enemies. St. Paul wrote, “God proves his love for us in that while we were still sinners Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8). We see God’s love for us in the Cross. We see God’s love in what he did for us, not expeting repayment because it is impossible to buy or earn or compensate God’s for our salvation. As God loves us, we are to love others, even our enemies.

There is a difference between authentically loving someone and liking someone. Liking someone means you enjoy being around that person, and or you agree with that person, and so on. You can truly love (agapaó) someone while not liking him. You can like someone without truly loving her. We have probably all had friends who like us but didn’t truly love us: they were not there when we truly needed them or they were not willing to do good for us without expecting some kind of payment or return. Jesus is not like that: he truly loves us, even when we are not being very likable; he truly loves us even though we are sinners.

Reflection Questions

  • In your prayer ask: Do I distinguish, in my own mind, loving someone from liking someone? Do I truly love God and my neighbor, or do I sometimes only “like” them?
  • Reflect on this: How can I love my enemies by doing good to them, even when I don’t like them? How can I desire the greatest good for my enemies, even if it isn’t to my advantage?
  • Consider in quiet reflection: How strong must Jesus’ love for me be, if he became human, and then suffered and died on a cross to save me, sinner that I am?

The Presentation of the Lord

Hebrews 2:17

...he had to become like his brothers and sisters in every way, that he might be a merciful and faithful high priest before God
to expiate the sins of the people.

Readings for Sunday: Malachi, Hebrews, Luke

Reflection:

At the Field Museum there was an exhibit filled with shoes—endless varieties from around the world, even boots. A sign read, “Walk a mile in my shoes,” inviting us to understand others’ lives by imagining their journeys. It was inspiring. But something was missing—a pair of sandals, worn by a Jewish carpenter from Nazareth named Jesus.

Those sandals represent something profound: that God Himself understands us. God, as God, knows everything.Yet in Jesus, God takes our humanity, walking among us, experiencing life as we do.

The feast we celebrate today, the Presentation of the Lord, reminds us of this incredible truth. Mary and Joseph brought Jesus to the temple—the place where God’s glory, His shekinah, dwelled among His people.

For centuries, that glory had seemed distant—hidden behind the curtain of the Holy of Holies, accessible only to the high priest, and only once a year at that. But Malachi foretold a day when the Lord Himself would come to His temple. And when He did, it wasn’t with fire and lightning, but as a baby in His mother’s arms.

In Jesus, the glory of God walked a mile in our shoes. He shared in our joys and sorrows, even our death, to save us from sin and bring us into a new relationship with God—as His beloved children.

So, when life feels dark or overwhelming, follow Simeon’s example. Keep your eyes on Jesus. Because in Jesus, our God is with us in our experience, even when life is hard.

Reflection Questions

  • In Your Prayer Ask: How does knowing that Jesus “walked a mile in our shoes” change the way you view your relationship with God? How can this truth bring you comfort in moments of darkness or difficulty?

  • Reflect on This: Simeon waited his whole life to see Jesus, trusting in God’s promise. What are you waiting for or trusting God with right now? How might keeping your eyes on Jesus help you find hope and strength in your journey?

  • Consider in Quiet Reflection: The museum exhibit invited visitors to “walk a mile” in someone else’s shoes. How can Jesus’ example inspire you to better understand and show compassion to others? Who in your life might need you to walk alongside them today?

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